Posted: March 21, 2016 in Uncategorized

This blog is a source for content that I am very proud of. It is mostly motivational and philosophical because I believe that is the biggest void that I see in the infoverse around me at this time. Here is a quick list of the resources for information, motivation, and all around useful stuff that can put my readers on the fast track to success.

Specifically strength related: Dripping with great stuff!!! Can’t get enough of it. Well referenced and crammed full of great references, links, and shit loads of top-tier content!! Linked to various social media and the podcast is pretty great too. Much like my next resource you are going to have to cherry pick the content most suited for your goals but whatever those goals are there is tons of awesome info here. and

This guy is a badass too. Mark is primarily focused on powerlifting and strength but he is also a funny, highly motivational, and incredibly successful man with loads of information at the ready. His power project is the framework that countless people have followed for short informational Youtube videos. It is also a treasure trove a great training advice. Powercast is his podcast that is easily accessible and just loaded with great interviews with a large variety of people from various strength sports. Massive amounts of top-tier content and fucking hilarious. Well worth the time.

All things about all things:

I never wanted to like this guy!!! I wanted to hate all three books of his that I bought and read numerous times. I wanted to hate his blog that is just amazing!! Probably the single best resource for success in almost every single aspect of life imaginable. I wanted to hate his show that I have watched every single episode of numerous times. I could go on and on but you get the point. I failed in my attempt to hate him and am constantly blown away by how much this man has achieved in such a short life. Fearless and brilliant!! This website is endless in its scope and breadth. If he does not address a topic directly you will find links to the most brilliant minds addressing the issue. Business, nutrition, biological sciences, food, etc., etc., etc., etc.,……… you get my point. Every article and podcast is heavily referenced and each one can send you on journeys that will end only when you decide. I am not even going to give a specific example, pick a podcast, listen, and then start following any of the links that interest you down the rabbit hole. Navy Seals, scientists, highly succesful entrepreneurs, biochemists, and artists abound. All of which will open your mind to possibilities and give you endless resources to continue the journey in any direction you choose. Every time I listen to a podcast I feel like a damn Goonie because I know there is a treasure map that directs me to places I may not have discovered otherwise. It’s like a Choose Your Own Adventure novel for the highly motivated.


Ramit Sethi:

Uber successful blogger Ramit Sethi will absolutely carpet bomb your email box if you sign up for his blog. Normally not a fan of this but more often than not there is some pretty useful and interesting stuff. He does sell courses but he also gives out shit loads of free content and it has been a great resource for financial and entrepreneurial information.

Some youtubers I enjoy and find either highly motivational, informational, and some just entertaining.

Rich Piana

The living legend of youtube! Rich and successful and puts it ALL out there. Highly controversial but very motivational in informative.

George Leeman

Has slowed down a bit as of late but has a ton of content on youtube that will light a fire under your ass.

As with ALL sources of information please use your fucking head. Pardon the language but as you have heard me say a million times over this is all to enhance thought and knowledge, not replace it. Please be very discerning with all information. Use the scientific method!! Information is either fact or opinion. A fact can be tested and will ALWAYS hold true. Water will always boil at 100 degrees celsius, 1 + 1 will always be 2!!! If something cannot be tested to this extent and always hold true, then it will remain a theory until proven otherwise.


*Just a disclaimer that this is a post I put together as a response to an overwhelming amount of requests. It is unedited and may contain some typos or grammatical errors.


Effective Resolutions

Posted: February 26, 2016 in Uncategorized

In this age of enlightenment people can be too quick to tear things to pieces. Maybe it is a natural side effect of the information age but it can be counterproductive. I do like that snake oil salesmen rarely have a place to hide against discerning minds but it also seems to lend to a level of cynicism that can rain on proverbial parades.

New years resolutions for example. The tradition of using the turn of the calendar as a starting point for new goals and achievements is one that I am a HUGE fan of!! Of course the haters love to chime in with one of their favorite tools (statistics) and spew out how a very small number of people maintain their pursuit of new goals. This stream of thought may seem counter intuitive to the focus of this blog. I realize I have no tolerance for excuses and believe in the pursuit of lofty goals at all costs. Being that as it may, in no way do I support any type of discouraging people against any opportunity to take another shot at setting and pursuing goals. Even the failure to pursue was began with the setting and identifying of goals and that is a start. Knowing the goal plants the seed. You have only truly failed when you quit.

This will be my first and only article dealing with strategies to stay motivated for achieving goals. I am a firm believer that when pursuing your passions nothing in any way should be able to stop you. Lets broaden the scope a little then. What about peripheral goals. What if in the midst of pursuing your gold medal you want to learn a new language or skill. Here are some strategies I have found effective in achieving goals that are a little outside of the wheelhouse.

Find out how people who do have the goal that you are trying to achieve as their main focus and passion achieved success.

-There is an ever increasing amount of resources to use to get the real information for every conceivable subject. Learning languages, starting businesses, starting blogs, etc.

-Every conceivable to angle to take for self improvement, and skill study.

-Learning an instrument or a martial art.

Seek out real experiences as well. Peers and mentors are critical.

-The flip side to the coin is that virtual experience is a start, or a great supplement to real life, but get out there and meet people and gain experience. What is the point of learning a language if it is not to expand your scope of experience in this world with people from other cultures.

Set goals with friends or in groups to hold you accountable, and put skin in the game.

-Find someone you can trust and rely on to hold you accountable. Not someone who is just trying to be reassuring, but someone to truly hold you accountable. Put skin in the game with them as well. Give them the authority to hold you accountable. Set weekly goals that you have to prove you accomplished or you owe him 20 bucks. If you are serious about achievement what are you afraid of. If that commitment is not ok, then you just proved you really don’t want to achieve your goal.

Be realistic and honest when setting short term goals

-a list of one or two small realistic things to chip away at every day is one of the most powerful tools to achieving massive goals. Jerry Seinfeld once said that you should make a link the day you start pursuing a new goal that represents an effort made towards achieving it. Every day an identifiable effort is made towards that achievement make another link. Any day missed breaks the chain. No matter how big the goal, if that chain gets long enough the goal will be achieved. (Obviously paraphrased but conceptually accurate).

Be outrageous when setting long term goals.

-“If your goals do not scare you, they are not big enough” -unknown





2016 So far…

Posted: February 26, 2016 in Uncategorized

Its a new year and I am finally back at the keyboard. I had an umbilical hernia repaired at the end of last year. 9 weeks later I am starting to ease back into training and it has been no less than a monumental learning experience. A good friend of mine has put of the same surgery for coming up on 13 years and I can empathize. 6 weeks of no activity then an easing back in to regular training is a gut check to say the least. When my surgeon cleared me for “light” training I was not sure what he meant. “I know not of this light you speak of?!” I said to the man.

As I built up my cardio endurance on the treadmill and bike to a respectable level I truly felt as if I was in a bad dream. “Nothing that dramatically increases intra-abdominal pressure” he says to me. “Well then how shall I poop???” I says back.

It is not that I was not aware of the little dumbells at the end of the rack, or that I did not realize that the weight stacks had lower pin settings that the entire stack. I just chose not to bother with them. These “light” versions of my passion that the surgeon suggested seemed as appealing as the surgery itself but I tucked my manhood, grabbed the little baby weights and repped away.

I imagine the compromises that I was making with myself mentally were similar to a budding actress on the set of some b rated horror movie. “This is only temporary”, “focus on the future”, “paying my dues” etc etc.

As I sit here writing this I am closing out week 9 of my recovery and can barely walk. 20 rep squats you ask? Well yes indeed!! More than 135 pounds you ask? No sir!! And yes you heard me right. Crippled with soreness!!! 20 rep set with 135 and auxiliary work and I am sore as I was the first time I cracked open the Super Squats book I hold so sacred.

As I hold my ego in a sleeper hold and flashback to my fathers basement struggling to complete my 20th rep with 135 pounds crushing my bony shoulders I see a reflection in the mirror. A reflection of an almost 6 foot tall 165 pound teenager with dreams of great size and strength. As I stand doing shoulder flyes with a weight that would not intimidate a hamster I see the reflection of that memory looking back at me. This has been a recurring torment over the last 6 weeks. Images of the gains I sweat and bled over the last 26 years for lost in less time than it takes a werewolf to feed twice. Bones jutting out of my shirt and rapidly running out of belt loops to hold my trousers up on what used to be a pretty decent set of wheels.


OK I am back. The reality is that I did not lose that much. I am sitting at about 295 right now and strength and size are coming back with ease. The calendar accuses me of being on the wrong side of 37 years so yes my joints and such are needing a little TLC. Saturday after this coming one will see my return to the table and 2016 will be a most triumphant year I am sure. I will post updates from this point on chronicling any aspects of my training that I or anyone else feels was worth mentioning or requesting.

The take away of todays rant is that the mind is a deceitful monster if not kept in check. Do not let the most powerful weapon in your world have any degree of control. Constantly and consistently realign and refocus your mind to keep the right perspective and to focus its limitless power towards achievement and the accomplishments you are capable of. Take the leash off of it and it will crush your spirit and derail you for as long as you let it. Every situation has some angle you see it from that will keep you as on track as possible.


Return to the table was a blast. Definitely lost some strength but nowhere near as bad as I had feared. Loads of lessons learned and will be posting tomorrow a few articles bred from the lessons I have been forced to learn over the last 3 months.



Posted: January 12, 2016 in Uncategorized

Vaccinations… Prosthetic body modifications… Weight lifting… What do these words have in common? They are all examples of advancements, designed by humans to direct their adaptation to existence in the modern world. Adaptation is vital to the process of evolution, to the point of synonymity; without adaptation, there is no evolution. Because of the interdependence of these two processes, I would argue that the discovery of methods to cause adaptations intentionally is the most significant advancement that humans have made. Adaptation takes many forms–not just physical, but also emotional and psychological. Anytime we are learning, we are adapting, we are evolving. When we talk about the next phase of human evolution, it seems to evoke fantastic images of mutants with gills or superpowers. But, really, is it any less amazing the way we’ve induced our own evolution by introducing microscopic germs into our bodies so that we are forced to learn to fight them and therefore able to prevent future illness?


One aspect of adaptation that has been studied to some degree is the effect that the psychological can have on the physical–everything from people dying within months after receiving a terminal prognosis even though they were misdiagnosed, to people seeing gains from exercise programs that they only executed through visualization. Hard data on these situations exists. And what does it imply? Could there be an angle of performance enhancement that is underused? Could psychological training actually have the power to elicit tangible physical gains? Can muscle tissue and tendon strength be increased through mind work? If psychological training can produce real results, how much can we expect from it and what are the most efficient ways to capitalize on it?

I do not know.

I myself grew up loving comic books, and so I tend to animate my training in my mind, cartoon-style. If I am going to do heavy squats, I visualize myself as a Titan, with entire planets poised on the ends of my barbell. I tell the civilizations, “Hold on! You’re about to go for a ride!” They wait on mountaintops, clinging to trees for dear life while their oceans churn and their entire planet is thrown back and forth by the force of me completing my set. At the same time, I visualize my muscles growing. I see my frame strengthening on a cellular level from deep within to the shell that I have authority over. I command my body to manifest the image that I have in my mind. Glowing psychic energy from within me casts the shadow of my intent over my physical body. I am the arbiter of my creation. My maker handed the reigns to me so that I could cultivate myself as an organism capable of anything that I can solidify in my mind.

With every passing generation, people adapt and evolve–some slowly, some rapidly. But the line of evolution has only moved in one direction since we started walking upright: people are getting better. We live longer and are exponentially smarter. Almost without exception, progress in speed, strength, and thought have come at increasingly rapid rates. Besides the legends of King kameamea flipping the naha stone and the American forefathers who could write with both hands at the same time in two different languages, the human races batting average has been steadily increasing.

i say as unbelievable as paul bunyon was i watch a few youtube videos per day that shatter my narrow scope of reality. 500 years ago a tale of hafthor bjornson walking with a 1400 pount mast on his shoulders would have taken years to get to this end of the world. and by then who knows what form the tale would hold. a millennia passed since the first account of such a feat. Now I watched it with my own eyes just a day after it was accomplished.

one of the most powerful tools for increasing the power of the mind is to constantly show it evidence that any limitations perceived are simply self-imposed. when I was yound and had just done my first backflip on a trampoline i rode my motorcycle shortly thereafter and spent a day hitting one particular jump. I saw in my minds eye that the jump would be perfect to accomplish a backflip on my motorcycle. Fear prevented the accomplishment at the time, and possibly being bound to a wheelchair for the rest of my life, but when the first backflip on a motorcycle was achieved i was not surprised. I could see and feel myself doing it that day. I knew it was possible.

Extreme sports are evolving so fast it is terrifying. Robbie Madison table topping the arc de triumph in vegas to all sorts of vehicular stunts that look like a cartoon at first view. Red Bull puts its name on all sorts of insanity that just a decade ago was practically science fiction.

My point of this rant is that the slow drip of progress is not necessary anymore. Fate is begging the human race to blow the doors of the limitations of the mind and rewarding us with uncanny abilities. Acrobatics and strength, speed and agility, and knowledge are all increasing at mind boggling rates because of the tangible proof of what is possible that is communicated at light speed across the world now.

I challenge everyone to take their passion and spend some time fantasizing about what it will look like in 50 years.

Look at what the benchmarks and records were back then and what are they now. What kind of advancements were made that allowed for this progress? what did that look like 20 years ago? and now today.

If that same type of progress was maintained what will those numbers look like?

when will we break a 3 minute mile?

a sub 4 second 40 yard dash?

a 1500 pound raw squat?

50 years ago a car that went 100 miles an hour was very fast. 30 years ago a street legal car broke 200 miles an hour.

within the last few years the production car record is about 270 mph.

How long until 300 is achieved? and then how long after that until the speed limit is on the rural freeways is 150 or more?

Not as long as it may seem.

Make efforts everyday to expand your scope of reality and what is possible. This combined with refining the focus you have on small achievable goals in the short term will combine to tangible acceleration in gains. This must always be tempered with reason and safety. Reckless pursuit only ends one way. But do not be your own limitation. You are capable of anything that can be focused upon with enough intent to see and feel. To believe with enough conviction that the effort necessary to achieve the goal valid and worthwhile. IF the effort is put in and the goal is clear, nothing can stop you. The universe will be on your side and destiny will have your back. Never stop


The Holiday Season

Posted: November 25, 2015 in Uncategorized

(This article was written hastily and is unedited, I just wanted to make sure to get this published in time for Thanksgiving tomorrow. Thank you for everyone near and far for trying to be the best people we can. Happy Holidays)

The celestial cycle is coming to a close. I find myself attempting to emulate the mentality of our ancestors and the observations that eventually evolved into this glorious season. The winter months coming to a close. The spring would be providing a new opportunity to plant seed and a freedom from a harsh cold season. It would be time to produce, collect, and store resources to survive the most dangerous part of the year.  Somewhere along the line it became a practice to take a moment to come together and celebrate the best of what we could be. On the longest night of the year during the coldest and darkest season people made it a point to come together and cultivate generosity and gratitude. Thanksgiving celebrating the fall harvest, and the winter celebration of the solstice. Religions and cultures the world over have some form of celebrations during these times. The underlying theme of them all is the sense of love, community, generosity, and gratitude.

I find this all so awesome that possibly just as an opportunity to remind everybody of what is still good in life at a time when our ancestors would have been in the middle of the most extreme seasonal struggle for survival of the year. I can imagine gratitude could have been at its lowest point when people were surviving off of stored foods and goods. Possibly realizing “dammit I should’ve tanned a bigger fur to stay warm, chopped more wood for the fire, and where did I put that salted squirrel I was saving?????” Being thankful for family and community may not be on the mind while buttcheeks are frozen together and you are trying to ration out the last of the salted beef heart. (I have no idea if that is a real thing people ate)

Point being I think it is a true testament to the good in people to have started a tradition to celebrate the longest, coldest night of the year with a holiday focused on cheer and good tidings. Giving and a recommitment to community have persevered and spread to a large portion of the globe. Even places that did not have a winter per se now celebrate some form of joyousness and gratitude this time of the year.

Fast forward to today as I sit at a computer in Scottsdale Arizona bracing myself for the partly cloudy 72 degree day I am forced to forge through. Life is riddled with abundance and opportunity. There will be no epic struggle for survival and the food will be fresh and delicious. I will be blessed to spend time with the friends and family in attendance and I will dearly miss the friends and family that will be elsewhere hopefully having an equally beautiful, loving, and celebratory day. All of those still with us are available at a simple tap for communication on the little magic box in my pocket. I believe those no longer with us are at most peace seeing the attempts made by the family still here to maintain tradition.

Disconnect from the cynicism and negativity that lower people attempt to pollute the season with. I am well aware that the Thanksgiving story has a spotty history, and that Coca-Cola has a lot to do with the modern imagery of Santa Clause. Who gives a crap!!!. Take the foil helmet off for a couple weeks and save the cause for the other 10 months. Even if its just for the few weeks at the end of the year, take the time to pretend to be the person you wish you were. Be in gratitude for all that you have. Pray for those that are less fortunate. Take some time, money, or something and try to make the world a better place for someone else. If all of these actions leave you with a realization that you have improvements to make then take a page from our ancestors playbook. Plant the seeds of change and progress, tend to that crop as if your life depends on it, harvest the benefits of change, and then repeat this process this time next year.

I wish everyone a happy holidays.



Posted: October 13, 2015 in Uncategorized

How do you determine value? Whether consciously or subconsciously, we attach value to all things in life. People, places, and things have value. Actions have value. Words have value. Situations have value. Ideas and feelings have value. Positive or negative, great or small, all things are assessed with the concept of value.

Value is always determined by the individual as an indication of his or her priorities in a specific moment in a specific context. Sure, we can say that groups agree upon certain values. For instance, gold traders agree upon the price of gold on any given day. But I can guarantee you that even a gold trader’s gold wedding ring is worth a whole helluva lot more to him on his wedding day than on the day he finds out his wife is leaving him. The tricky thing about value is that the commodity usually remains the same—a bar of gold is a bar of gold is a bar of gold, with the same properties and characteristics, the same features and functions—and yet its value is constantly changing. So how do you determine value?


Reputation is one of the intangible ideas that is determined 100% by the application of subjective value, and the concept of reputation is highly relevant to this blog. Your reputation is critical to your success, in any venue or venture. What is your reputation worth to you? Do you make a point to be aware of it? Do you work on it? Do you invest in it? Do you have integrity? What are you worth to other people? How can you know?

  • How do people react to you when you tell them your goals? If you tell people you are going to create a new program, or start a business, or even just throw a party, do they trust that it’s a done deal and start planning accordingly? Or do they peer at you out of the corner of their eyes with a look that says, “Oh yeah, I’ve heard that before”? Of course, there will always be haters who meet every “I have a great idea” with a sarcastic “Yeah right,” but they’re no more than losers who realize their insignificant worth to the universe—on the balance sheet of life, they are spoilage… rat damage to be written off… blowback from the toilet flush of life… scraps whose cosmic purpose is to give winners the perspective of just how valuable they really are.
  • What is a promise worth to you? Do you believe your own promises? Do others? A promise isn’t often associated with a value, especially a monetary value, but it absolutely has one. A promise made by one person will produce laughter, while a promise from another person will produce enough trust to motivate people to invest millions of dollars. What are your promises worth?
  • What is the value that you place on yourself? Do you take your own goals seriously? When you make a promise to yourself, does it mean anything?

In the world of business, we regularly take inventory of our physical holdings in order to understand the value of our position. We don’t simply assess what we have and do not have, but we also evaluate—assign value to—those items. Taking a personal inventory is a great technique to keep yourself on the path to achievement, too. Where can you increase your efficiency? Where do you need to add value? Just as we make capital investments in inventory in the business world so that we have products that are desirable to consumers, so should we make strides in our personal lives so that we are valuable to ourselves and society.

When I write out a training program for myself, I consider it a binding contract. I know that, come hell or high water, I will follow it to the T. One of the biggest issues that I’ve had to address is that, if I identified a flaw in a program after I had started it, I wouldn’t make the appropriate adjustments because it felt like breach of contract. So I devised a system where I could allow myself to change things up without mind-fucking myself into second-guessing my decision. All changes made had to have an extensive rationale logged. Then after a short period I will review the rationale and see if the problem being addressed by the change had been fixed. If not then I would again revise my strategy.

It is imperative to your training program that you value yourself. Take your reputation seriously and invest in it. Take others’ perception of you into account as you’re making decisions. Live your life secure in the pride of integrity—it’s an insurance policy against losing your own personal value. Live wide open and honest. Success is never more fragile than when the person who achieves it is yoked to false value. People only reap the rewards of a good reputation as long as they deserve that reputation and keep their promises.

And don’t worry—even if you are not some sterling example of morality, people can still find value in you through the principle of WYSIWYG, what you see is what you get. I knew a man in college who told people, “You might not be able to trust me, but you can always trust me to be me.” His opening line with girls was, “You should run away now,” followed by, “I’ll be the biggest mistake you ever loved to make.” He was open and honest, and he always gave people the right to decide for themselves. He’s now a very successful lawyer.

Take a careful inventory of yourself. Spend some time with it so that you feel your own weight, getting a sense of yourself as a product in the universal market. Then, begin taking steps to increase your value daily—do a couple things with that intent every day. Hold yourself accountable, and demand that others do, as well. Tell people your goals and ambitions so that your reputation is on the line and contingent upon your follow-through. Accomplishing one discrete goal is not the end game—as soon as you accomplish one goal, set another, and use this strategy for every arena of your life. The pride in accomplishing a single goal is nothing compared to the glory of becoming a person who has adopted the habit of achieving all goals. This habit of constantly pursuing goals is the horsepower that will carry you through the race of life. Constantly polish the trophies your life provides—no one trophy is ever enough. And for Pete’s sake, if you take inventory and find that you’re living in a deficit, build up your stock immediately.

Leave any comment, question, or suggestion here on the blog or email me at if you want to continue this discussion or pursue my online coaching. I would love to hear from you.

“Peace of mind produces right values, right values produce right thoughts.  Right thoughts produce right actions and right actions produce work which will be a material reflection for others to see of the serenity at the center of it all.”—Robert M. Pirsig

Becoming a Hero

Posted: August 18, 2015 in Uncategorized

Heroes are everywhere these days—you can hardly swing a stick without getting it caught in somebody’s cape. From the big screen comic book crime fighters that gross millions in the box office alone to the logos emblazoned on every imaginable piece of merchandise being hocked by the big boxes, we are clearly obsessed. So how exactly does one go about becoming a hero?

Take away the capes and tights. Take away the trumpet swells and strident drums. Take away all the Hollywood details, and you’ll see that heroism is truly a matter of the success demonstrated by accomplishing goals. Really, it doesn’t even matter what your goals are, as long as you say, “I’m going to do something,” and then you do it. Achievement is what is attractive, not the actual spoils. Why? Because it happens so rarely. New Year’s resolutions are the perfect example of this lack of follow-through, with their 88% failure rate. “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Who followed through? Next to nobody. But some folks are made of stronger stuff than those other folks who gave up, gave out, walked away, slinked off to a dark corner with their tail between their legs. What do they do that’s different?

  1. Achieve. Achievement is, at its core, a one-step process. Once you know what you want to achieve, figure out how to do it. DO NOT QUIT! That’s it. True, you’ll need to strategize, but your strategy will change constantly. You’ll need to research, but your research will ebb and flow. You’ll need to take risks, but those risks will teach you the lessons you need to progress. And you will need to fail, but your failure will redirect your actions. Nothing—not strategies, research, risks, or failures—can come between you and your achievement. Achievement is only off the table when you quit.
  2. Stand for something. Have principles and stick to them. Do your best every chance you get. Nobody is perfect, but it’s a whole lot easier to garner the awe and respect due to heroes if you align your actions with your soul and never ever compromise. Living with integrity means that your words match your deeds. Stand tall for your choices so that you do not have to give a shit what anyone thinks—then you do not have to sweat it if someone claims to have some illicit video starring you or proof of the illegitimate child you never knew you had. Everything always comes out in the wash, like the fine upstanding preachers who get busted with hookers or even our ancestral heroes whose shine turns out to be nothing more than gilt when the research is done. If being a hero means nothing to you, then you’re free to live your life however you want. But if you aspire to more, then you have to live true to your own code, whatever that is.
  3. Help others. Give back in every way possible. Nothing feels better, has a bigger impact on the world, or generates more momentum than genuine good deeds for others. Find a cause that you feel in your heart and be its champion. Give until it hurts a little. Tune your energy to service so that it radiates. Make an impact. Always keep in mind that time is the most valuable commodity in the world—where you spend your time and who you spend it with will be remembered. Don’t believe me? Just go to an old folks’ home or a hospice for a couple of hours. Your net worth means shit compared to where you invest your time. I have a few words of caution for you, though, as you set your sights toward service. Helping others does not mean that you need to sacrifice yourself. Strongly organized efforts solve problems efficiently without any of their members needing to dive on a grenade for the cause. These same efforts use their resources, both human and otherwise, wisely. Steer clear of charities whose CEOs make as much as corporate execs.IMG_0958
  4. Teach. We all have valuable knowledge to offer to others. You will be able to teach long after you are able to perform. Be as aggressive at learning and experiencing as you can while you are able to perform. When that time has passed, whatever form of teaching you impart will have all the more value.
  5. Know the difference between your sidekicks and your nemeses. As you establish yourself as a hero, you’ll start to attract attention, but it won’t always be good. Some people will use you for what they can gain from you personally. Often, these same people will carry with them a diminishing effect, dragging you down to their inferior level. Whether they make well-intentioned suggestions that are actually based out of their own fear or jealousy, or whether they undermine your achievements by chalking them up to luck or privilege, or whether they hate on you openly, they can easily destroy everything you have worked for in the blink of an eye. Sadly, these people may be the “friends” you’ve known your whole life or your family members who are too eager to play the “family first” card. Well, fuck that. Blood means little, and friends are a dime a dozen unless they have proven that they come from a place of genuine love and support. Once the crud have been identified and removed, it will be easier to see those who are there to help you, as well as those who can really benefit from your help.

My entire blog is dedicated to those who are dedicated to achievement. I’ve chosen strength training as my focus for two major reasons. One is that the principles for success with strength training are universal and applicable to all aspects of life. The other is that there is no pinnacle to be achieved by following my training philosophy, since you can always be bigger, better, faster, or more. The heroes of the past have left us a legacy of bravery and courage embedded in their stories of achievement and accomplishment. I believe it is everyone’s responsibility to continue the tradition, each one of us leaving the greatest legacy possible. I want to be the hero in my own saga, and, more importantly, I want to do everything I can to inspire anyone in anyway to make their own legacy better. I want everyone to be the hero in their own personal adventure.

Leave any comment, question, or suggestion here on the blog or email me at if you want to continue this discussion or pursue my online coaching. I would love to hear from you.

“Write your own story. Be your own hero. Speak your own truth. Live your own dream.”—Raphaella Vaisseau